Liberated 

Free your mind!

I am always smiling. It my nature; Chester cat, so go call Alice.

I live life creating goals, then tackling challenges.

My life is like a count down clock 10, 9, 8, 7… I don’t know really how much time I have left… who really does.  So I need to make sure I smell the flowers deeper, I look at my children’s faces longer.  I annoy them with my constant playful harassing love.

I hope they remember my scent, my voice, my character. 

I often forget these qualities of my late mother.  So, I try really hard to talk to her and look at her pictures.  Keep her legacy alive.

One lesson I learned (simple yet amazing): At your own pace. This will set your mind free because you are only racing you.

I hope here I can open-minds and free my voice.

Licensed 

Reve it up.

I’m feeling amazing.

I can now officially check this off my list.  I have other items on my list and one by one, I will check them and keep it moving. I’m not afraid to set challenges and overcome obstacles.  

Staying in my lane in this #Fannytasticlife. 

Am I nervous…

That’s it.  I have no more time.  My test for freedom on the road is tomorrow. 

I have been waiting my whole life for this.  So far, every challenge I have given myself I have surpassed my goal.

I’m not embarrassed to admit that passing the road test is more than huge.  I have a lot riding on it; more than a mere  license.

Stay safe in your #Fannytasticlife highway♡

Own your swagger.

I often hear people play a victim role in certain scenarios.   I  have grown less tolerant of this behavior because no one can own you emotions, if you own your swagger.  

Here are my philosophies and anyone who has ever met me will know this to be true.

  1. Don’t be afraid to embrace who you are: stay true to yourself; no matter what.
  2. Nip it in the bud: if you dont like it, say something; otherwise the behavior or action will continue.
  3. Tell the truth, even if it hurts: put it this way, I would prefer honesty than hearing lies from people who are trying to make feel good.  Sugar coating often implodes later.
  4. I have a huge ego; I stroked it.  Stop looking for validation.  A quick thanks and firm handshake will do; don’t be needy. 
  5. Create open communication style: as soon as the door opens stick your foot in it and mirror the behavior given to you.  I belive confidence will set you free.
  6. Love yourself: bathe, comb, dress up, and give yourself the compliment you seek.
  7. Vent only to god: no one wants to hear it… some will be polite and listen but being forced to hear you… for what self gratification.
  8. Listen more. And take notes. 
  9. Put your phone away. DAMNIT!
  10. Remember not to sweat it.  By the way, I don’t sweat I glisten.
  11. Enjoy life don’t forget to stay amazing in your  #Fannytasticlife